Text: John 18:15-27
Memory verse:
“And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”
Ephesians 4:32 NKJV
Do you know that a strained friendship that is restored through forgiveness can even be stronger than it once was? People who find it hard to forgive rarely have lasting friendships.
Jesus had a very large heart and overlooked the shortcomings of His friends. The text gives an account of how Peter, a very close disciple of Jesus denied Him at a very critical period of His life.
True friendships extend grace and forgiveness. This involves letting go of grudges and working through conflicts with a spirit of reconciliation.
Peter had denied Jesus three times, but Jesus restored him three times by asking him how much he loved Him At first Peter didn’t understand, so he felt hurt. After Peter firmly declared his love and allegiance, he was restored, forgiven, and the flock was handed over to him (John 21:15-17).
I believe that Peter’s restoration by Jesus is one of the most touching scenes in the New Testament. He didn’t only forgive him, who had denied Him three times to save his own skin, but also restored him three times and entrusted the care of the early church to him. Grace indeed! Even prior to this, when Jesus rose from the tomb, He instructed the angel at the tomb to tell Mary to “go, tell His disciples—and Peter” (Mark 16:7). The angel didn’t mention other disciple’s name except Peter! This was because Jesus knew that after such a heart-breaking mistake, the disciple was probably filled with guilt and sorrow and would have thought that the relationship was over. He wanted him to know that He wasn’t holding that sin against him.
Service and acts of kindness are also expected in godly friendships. Serving others together and showing kindness reflects God’s love. Whether through supporting each other in practical ways or praying for one another, these actions demonstrate faith in practice. Jesus showed this example throughout His stay on earth (John 13:12-17). Job also prayed for his friends (Job 42:10).
Open and honest communication is also a very vital component of godly friendships. Friends should be able to discuss their struggles and joys and offer constructive, loving counsel that aligns with biblical principles. “.. And a friend is sweeter when he gives you honest advice.” (Prov 27:9 NERV).
Friends, do you show godly example by releasing people that offend you?
Can your friends count on you to pray for them at all times?
Prayer points
1. Father, please forgive me as I forgive and release people who have spitefully used me in Jesus’ name.
2. My Father, please help me to always show acts of service and kindness as I follow the example of Jesus.
Today’s declarations
1. Nothing will be too big for me to forgive others.
2. My light shines to the world as I show acts of kindness even to the undeserving.
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